February is known as the month of love — but it’s also a peak time for romance scams.

Scammers create fake profiles on dating apps and social media to build trust quickly. Once they gain someone’s confidence, they ask for money. The request often involves an emergency, travel costs, medical bills, or even a “can’t-miss” investment opportunity.

How These Scams Work

Romance scammers typically:

• Express strong feelings very quickly
• Claim they live or work far away
• Avoid video calls or meeting in person
• Ask for money through wire transfers, gift cards, cryptocurrency, or payment apps

Their goal is simple: build emotional trust, then exploit it.

Common Red Flags

Watch for these warning signs:

• They ask to move conversations off the dating app quickly
• Their story feels dramatic, urgent, or too good to be true
• Details about their life are inconsistent
• They pressure you to act fast or keep the relationship secret

If something feels off, trust your instincts.

How to Protect Yourself

• Never send money or gift cards to someone you haven’t met in person
• Use reverse image search to check profile photos
• Keep  your social media private
• Do not share personal or financial information
• Talk to someone you trust before sending money

Report any suspicious activity to Lee County Sheriff’s Office (239-477-1000) or to your local law enforcement agency 

The Lee County Sheriff’s Office provides over a dozen free crime prevention programs; These sessions cover practical tips to help keep you and your community safe. If you’d like to schedule one for your community, business, church, or organization, just give us a call at (239) 477-1CRU (1278) or send an email to CRU@sheriffleefl.org.